This has been a spectacularly unproductive break.
Things I have done:
-spent uncountable amounts of time on the internet/on the couch/watching movies/hanging out on the couch with Lindsey or other roommates while on the internet and/or watching movies
-discovered I can record directly onto my computer! This is fantastic! Now I can make bedroom pop.
-re-read both “The BFG” and “Matilda;” actually, this was probably the most productive thing I accomplished. Does re-reading books for the 11th time count as “productivity”? Doesn’t matter. Can we have a moment to appreciate the brilliance of these words: “Fleshlumpeater,” “snozzcumber,” “bogthumping trogglehumper”? I think Roald Dahl’s linguistic inventions infiltrated my childhood consciousness without my awareness. “Whizzpopper”? Totally hilarious when I was eight.
I’ve spent a lot of time hanging out with my really fantastic roommates (and not really anyone else). I’ve been surviving on pasta, Cheerios, and chocolate (too lazy to leave the house for groceries, socializing, etc.) Watched a bunch of movies and read very few books.
It’s been so great. (Except for the not-reading-books part. Reading new books is the best part of post-Christmas downtime, and I didn’t get any new ones this year. It’s time to venture to the library.)
Things I look forward to in 2008:
-figuring out what I would like to do with my life (at least have some sort of plan for the next handful of years)
-playing music with lots of people/getting more girls to play music in Bellingham
-spending more time with the people I love
-being more positive (YES-WAVE = the new posi-core).
On the many fantastic journeys I have taken on the internet recently, I have made many exciting discoveries. The latest: girlswholikeporno, from Barcelona:
“Girlswholikeporno are neither lesbians, nor definitely not bisexuals and heterosexuals. They believe in the postporn feminist queer theory as their grandmothers believe in the holy father. They neither believe in femininity, nor in the conception of porn for women, as that label is associated with a porn full of the traditional values of femininity, in other words romantic music, gentle and smooth sex and heterosexuality.
Multiplicity of desires can not be categorised.”
There seems to be a fair amount of folks who want to make feminist/queer/fat/etc-friendly D.I.Y. porn, which is fantastic. The internet makes a lot of really amazing things possible- democratizing of access to media, etc. Lots of women of our generation are learning to claim their sexualities- Passion Parties, consuming porn, kink- as Dan Savage says, “Handcuffs are so boring- that’s not even kinky anymore! A little light bondage- everybody does that.”
More and more folks are making porn that is, in the words of No Fauxxx: “sex-positive, subversive alternative porn site with cute pin-up girls, hot boys, chubby chicks, gorgeous BBW babes, steaming hot couples, punk, goth, hippy, natural, pierced, tatooed, shaved and unshaven models, sexy trans-gender/transexxual models (FTM & MTF), erotica, straight, gay, lesbian, and bi-sexual models, black models, asian models, soft-core, hard-core, and realistic SM and bondage.”
And again, it is really fantastic, hot, and essential that diverse folks are represented in porn (and any form of media).
But honestly? These don’t really do it for me much more than regular porn. It’s alternative, yeah- but alternative in the same way that kids are who have sweet tattoos, but then you talk to them & find out they are politically apathetic. Like, what? You have the appearance of trangression- but where’s the substance?
Of course, this is sex we’re talking about- that most personal and subjective of experiences. Can we please discuss whether you agree with me on this, after comparing GWLP to other alt. porn sites you may have experience with?
Because I don’t feel like the way a lot of these sites operate/are designed is very subversive. There is still the idea of subscriptions,
conventional definitions of sex;
the point, the goal, being the sex itself, without artistry in the medium (which is as nontransgressive as regarding the orgasm, rather than the experience itself, as the end-aim).
I WANT POETRY WITH MY PORN.
I WOULD LIKE CRITICAL ESSAYS WITH MY CUMSHOTS.
(i’m kidding, but only kind of)
Girls Who Like Porno is doing a really good job of just that. Deeply subversive videos that include sex. And are sometimes really human and beautiful, too, like El striptease de mi abuela.
Which seems a lot more human to me. Like Shortbus. And- did I mention?- HILARIOUS.
A short (and tame) (but still subversive) example of GWLP’s work:
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And, lastly, they use Lesbians on Ecstasy songs in some of their videos. SO HOT.